What the hell is dancing?
Really? What is it?
Now, I’m not talking about ballet or one of the more choreographed styles of dance. I totally get that. As a matter of fact, I’m a kind of a ballerina fanboy.
I know how much training and discipline it takes to reach the level of professional ballerina.
I’m in awe of the power they wield over their environment, and the physical strength and endurance it takes to make it through a performance while executing flawless technique.
I’m talking about what happens at wedding receptions.
That stuff that your date might try to make you do. That stuff that makes me decline the offer of being someone’s date to a wedding. I wouldn’t want to ruin her time by being the guy that won’t dance, or worse, the guy that dances awfully.
And all of her friends would be like, “Who is that derp that Jen brought with her?”
Because most women my age are named “Jen.” I think I know 15 of them. Which is okay, because I’ve always liked that name.
Anyway, I wouldn’t want to put Jen through that. Or myself, for that matter.
If I ever get married, I would take dance lessons with my fiancé. That way, we could look really awesome.
And instead of everyone thinking about how uncomfortable I look, which is exactly what people are thinking at that time in most men’s lives, they could instead think about what a beautiful moment it is. And everyone could really enjoy it.
Because If something scares us or makes us uncomfortable, sometimes learning more about it takes the edge off.
If someone is afraid of snakes, maybe learning more about them could help. Learn which ones are venomous and which ones are not. Learn which ones you’re likely to encounter where you live.
If a person is afraid of public speaking, perhaps taking an acting class at the local college could help one become more comfortable in front of an audience and also give them tools to help them seem more relaxed onstage.
Or maybe someone who is afraid of getting mugged could take a self defense class from a reputable instructor and feel more comfortable going out in the evening to spend time with friends.
There are lots of options and work-arounds.
Think about what you’d like to change and what skills or information you’d need to do it. Then think about who might possess that skill or a similar one and go and get it. It might be a person. It might be a book. Check it out.
As far as me, I’m not engaged so I don’t really have to worry about dancing anytime soon.